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Whenever someone responds aggressively to a reasonable personal boundary, you should report them and block them immediately. Pushing for personal phone numbers or calling you names on day one is not just rude – it is a major behavioral red flag. People who display hostility in early messages are testing how much pressure you will tolerate, and that behavior will only escalate if you give in. Platforms like Hily provide simple reporting buttons precisely so you can flag abusive behavior and protect other users from experiencing the same treatment. Do not waste your energy arguing, defending your choices, or apologizing for having boundaries. Just submit a report, unmatch the profile, and move on. You deserve interactions that feel respectful, polite, and safe from the very beginning.